A Proper Easter Attire

Easter FlowersIn one week’s time my friends and I, we’ll be celebrating. Rejoicing over the single most profound event in all of history. Pondering the most baffling truth in all the world. As if taking on tiny baby flesh wasn’t enough… now the exalted King of all things has traded places with me and made it right again. He’s taken all the broken places and made them whole again. He has gathered up all the shards – the shattered relationships, the selfish acts, the greedy thoughts; He’s swept them up and fashioned them into something more beautiful than the original sculpture. All at His own expense.

How is this not the best news ever heard? How is it that most of us would rather talk about bunnies and pastel eggs and new bonnets? Can’t we just talk about something sweet? Maybe tulips or lilies? Anything to distract us from having to really focus on the shock of what Jesus has done.

Why? Why do we push it away? Why do we let other things overshadow this profound truth? Don’t we want the broken places fixed?

I think I finally understand it. I think we DO want them fixed. At least many of us do. We know something is wrong. We see the shattered mess of the world. And we really want it fixed.

We just want to do it ourselves.

And there’s the rub. Easter Sunday is only truly a celebration if we are convinced we’d be hopeless and desperate without it.

John Stott captured it well in this short piece entitled Naked Pride:

“As we stand before the cross, we begin to gain a clear view both of God and of ourselves, especially in relation to each other. Instead of inflicting upon us the judgment we deserved, God in Christ endured it in our place… This is the ‘scandal,’ the stumbling-block, of the cross. For our proud hearts rebel against it. We cannot bear to acknowledge either the seriousness of our sin and the guilt or our utter indebtedness to the cross. Surely, we say, there must be something we can do, or at least contribute, in order to make amends?”

Yes, isn’t there something? Maybe I can be a little nicer to my annoying neighbor. Or go to church a bit more. Oh, and, I’ll totally stop cussing when the kids are around. Yes, I can pull this thing together if I just work a little harder. Put my nose to the grindstone and all of that. Come to think of it, what’s the big deal about Easter anyway? Oh yes,  another religious holiday. Sure, I’ll go pay my dues. If God is lucky, I’ll even throw a little something in the plate as it goes by. Better yet, I’ll contribute to one of those clean water well projects in Africa. Yes, that’s what I’ll do. If we all just did something like that, this world would be a better place.

Ah… but Stott cuts across such platitudes, “The proud human heart is there revealed. We insist on paying for what we have done. We cannot stand the humiliation of acknowledging our bankruptcy and allowing somebody else to pay for us. The notion that this somebody should be God Himself is just too much to take. We would rather perish than repent, rather lose ourselves than humble ourselves…

“But we cannot escape the embarrassment of standing stark naked before God. It is no use our trying to cover up like Adam and Eve in the garden. Our attempts at self-justification are as ineffectual as their fig-leaves. We have to acknowledge our nakedness, see the Divine Substitute wearing our filthy rags instead of us, allow Him to clothe us with His own righteousness.”

And it is right there. In that naked place of realization. There that Easter Sunday becomes the grandest celebration. The best news we’ve ever heard.

May your preparation this week be blessed. Both as you ponder your own nakedness and as you embrace the beautiful garment offered to clothe you.

Grace and peace,

Shannon McKee

My Exceeding Joy?

“I have set the LORD always before me… therefore my heart is and glad, and my whole being rejoices…” – a song penned by King David of Israel

For the last 10 weeks, I have been gathering with 70 other women from our precious church family every Monday evening to ponder this very idea. What does it mean for me to set the LORD always before me? For starters, who IS He, anyway? What’s He like? Can I know Him? And, furthermore, can that – just setting Him before me – really make my whole being rejoice? Really?

I don’t know about you, but I’m not sure I experience that on a day-in, day-out basis. Oh, I have moments of joy. When I’m laughing with my family. Or when I’m having a great conversation with a like-minded friend. Or when I’m on vacation, walking along the dunes in quiet. Or when I’m singing hymns of praise and I sense the weight of my words back to God. Or when I’m reading an epic story like Lord of the Rings.


But, I’m not sure my whole being rejoices. And, if it does, it’s not for more than a minute or two. When the song stops or the laughter turns to bickering or the book ends or the coffee shop closes or it’s time to come back from nature into the grind of life. The moment passes and with it, sadly, so does my joy. It gets crowded out by all the rest of it.King David goes on in that same song to say that “in {God’s} presence there is fullness of joy.” Fullness. Not just a little crumble of joy that passes with a momentary pleasure. But fullness of joy. Like a cup that is brimming over with abundance.

The dictionary says that joy is the pleasurable feeling caused by the acquisition or expectation of something good. Can you think for a sec about the times over the last year when you experienced joy? What are those good things in your life that make you feel that way?

That’s a for real question. Not a trick question. And don’t say “Jesus” just because you think it’s the most spiritual thing to say. Think about it and jot some things down.

I don’t think those things are bad. It’s not wrong that laughing with my family brings me joy. But, I do think they are just a taste. Because, as Mary Kassian points out in her book Knowing God By Name, then it follows that the greater the goodness, the greater the joy will be.

Did you catch that? The greater the goodness, the greater the joy. So, if a walk along Lake Michigan dunes brings me a little bit of joy, wouldn’t it follow that focusing on the God of Splendor who thought of and created those dunes out of nothingness, would bring me A LOT of joy?

I think it might.

Sort of Like a Long-Awaited Letter. Only Better.

Tomorrow my friend Val and I will begin teaching an 8-week women’s Bible study for our church. And, I’ve got to tell you, I get goosebumps when I think about it. Not butterflies, mind you. But goosebumps.

You know that prickly sensation when you’re in awe or really excited about something? That’s how I feel about leading this study.

Sort of like we might feel if we didn’t have instant messaging or tweeting or email or even phone service. And we had to wait for letters to come great distances to hear from the ones we loved. I imagine it like the early immigrants to America might have felt. Maybe a letter has just arrived from our Grandad who still lives in the Old Country. How we all grab for it and want to read it first. Instead we gather around in the living room – brothers, sisters, cousins, all of us together. And one of us reads it out loud. And maybe his Scottish brogue comes through thick in his writing and Mom has to explain this or that because our own memories of “home” have grown dim. We didn’t really mean to forget. Not really. But, truth be told, it’s hard to remember what he looks like anymore or the way his hug feels after a walk in the meadow. And the littlest among us barely knew him at all before we left.

But when Momma reads we remember. We hang on every word. And I get goosebumps as I listen to words penned by his precious hand. A bit of him. Here. With us now.

That’s how I feel about tomorrow night. It’s an imperfect analogy, I know. But, it gets at the heart of it for me.

We did receive a letter from a great distance. Only it’s not from our Grandad… No. Even better. This letter is from the very One who called the stars out by name and told the proud ocean waves where to stop. And knew me while I was still being knit together in my mother’s womb. The One whose mercies are new every morning. He who heaps grace on me. Grace upon grace. He has spoken. Written down all the things He wanted me to know for this life. Fantastic accounts of love spurned and the relentless pursuit of a Suitor. A cheater wooed back. Of a love that wins.

A letter like that shouldn’t be sitting pristine on a shelf. Friends, do you know that men died so that we could get this letter? And read it in our own language? This is a letter that deserves to be poured over. Read again and again. Slowly, savoring every word. Pages worn thin from getting it out over and over again.

I know I need the letter. Oh how I need it. Because, I’ll be honest, sometimes I forget. I forget what He’s like and how His story has become my history. Let’s face it, there are lots of other voices competing with the letter. Trying to keep me from it. Some even mock the letter. “How do you even know it’s from Him? What if it’s a fake? Or been altered by the deliveryman?”

But I know better. Aside from apologetic proof upon proof, there is the reality that His fingerprints are all over His correspondence. His heart beating with the very idea of something so impossible as grace. I need want to hear what He has to say. To be reminded afresh.

And I need to do it in the company of “family.” With my sisters. So that we can revel in the goodness and wrestle with the hard stuff… together.

I know, right? You felt it too. Goosebumps.

If you live in Northeast Ohio and you’re a chica and you would like to join us for the study, there is still time. We’ll be studying one of the most ancient stories of all – the life of Abraham as recorded in the book of Genesis. The cost if $15 for the entire 8-week session, which runs from Sept. 8 thru October 27 (7 to 8:30). Use the contact tab right here on my blog to let me know you’ll be there or to get more information. Unfortunately, online registration at the church website has closed; so this is the best way to sneak-in under the wire! Don’t worry, I know the pastor and he said I could. {wink}

Profound Thoughts On Being a PK

Being a pastor’s kid has its pros and cons. For the most part, the Man-Child really likes it – especially when someone gives us football tickets or we bring home leftover food from a church event. But, we still like to check-in to see how the kids are feeling about it – especially when it’s a busier time in the life of our church family.

This morning we asked and got this response: “Well, it IS extra work. And, sometimes I have to wave at people I don’t even know. But other than that, I’m cool with it.”  

Awesome. We’ll take it.

But , really, who knew that waving was at the top of the PK Hardships list?!?!

Grace for our Parenting Passions

Parenting is a funny thing.

Maybe it’s because our children are so dear to our hearts. Or because we know that their place in this world says something about us. Or because we intuitively sense the hugeness of shaping another life. Maybe it’s a combination of all these things.

But, something about parenting has the power to simultaneously bring out the best in us and the worst in us. Our most insightful, gracious, tenderhearted moments in one turn. And in another, our ugliest, most prideful judgements.

And I’m not even referring to how we treat our kids.

No, I’m talking about our interactions with other parents.  

You know what I’m talking about. Don’t you? Come on now. You’ve been there – probably on both ends of the judging. Depending on the day.

Perhaps you’ve seen the new mom. She’s tired. Her hormones are all whacked out. The book says little Joey should be on a schedule by now. But, despite her best efforts, he’s not. She condemns herself daily. She’s sure that she’s ruined everything. He’ll be a tyrant now. Because he doesn’t eat and sleep when he’s supposed to. She’s so worried about following the book that she forgets to just gaze into his sweet face while he’s nursing. And somewhere, some other mom is “tsk, tsking” her. Because her little Johnny was sleeping through the night at 6-weeks-old.  

Or you’ve been in a store with preschool mom. Her little guy is getting antsy. She thought it would be a quick stop so she doesn’t have the stroller. He wants to touch that one thing. You know, that one thing that he’s not allowed to touch. Momma has corrected him and steered him to another thing several times now. But, he’s not into that plan. Finally he reaches up, slaps mom in the face and runs out the front of the store before she can grab him. Mortified and defeated, she leaves her errand unfinished and just takes him home. As she straps him into his carseat, her vision is clouded by hot tears. She fails to see him as a boy who needs shaped. In that moment, she only sees her own embarrassment. Meanwhile the other moms and the sales clerk talk about what a horribly permissive mother she must be.

And, really, this is just the beginning. The issues just seem to get bigger and the judging more heated as the kids get older. Schooling. Clothes. Boy-girl stuff. Media boundaries. Books. Food choices. Extra-curricular activities. Cell phones. On and on it goes. 

Of course we feel passionately about our parenting. Of course we think we’re doing the right things when we make our decisions. That’s why we do what we do. Because we think it’s the best thing. We wouldn’t do it otherwise. Usually, our parenting choices come from our core beliefs about life and a heart of love and vision for our kids. Those are things we’re pretty passionate about!!

Unfortunately, often times, that heart gets buried by layers of defensiveness and judgement and pride and insecurity. Because even as we’re judging another’s parenting, we’re wondering and hoping that we’re making the right calls and that our own kids are turning out OK. We’re never totally sure.

It would almost be silly if it weren’t so damaging to true community.

What if there were a better way?

What if we really believed in grace? Like, really believed it. And that trumped all the rest of it.

What if a homeschooling mom, a public school mom and a private school mom could all sit in a room together while they discussed their schooling choices and NO ONE felt threatened or insecure or judged? Not because we didn’t feel passionately about the choice we made for our family. But, because we could approach the whole thing with grace and humility.

I’d like to get a glimpse at people like that. I mean, who wouldn’t?

Oh wait. I already have one. Glimpses of grace in action. Sometimes you’ll find them in an old carpet warehouse on route 91. Or laughing in each other’s living rooms. Or crying over a cup of coffee together in Panera. Or serving in a homeless shelter together.

I can see them. Oh, I know they’re not finished yet. There’s more to them than this life. It’s not like they’re perfect. Sometimes they forget who they really are. But, I think grace is beginning to sink deep. Freedom is becoming a reality and they’re learning to love like Jesus. Honestly, I’ve never seen anything quite like it before.

It’s a beautiful thing to witness. An even more beautiful thing to be a part of.

One Non-Denominational Girl & Her Musings on Lent

I’m a decidedly non-denominational girl. I love Jesus. I love His Church (usually!). But I’ve never been particularly drawn to one denomination or loyal to one tradition within Christianity.

We worship Sundays in a converted carpet warehouse. Our pastor preaches most weeks in jeans. We’ve never even owned hymnals or had a formal pulpit. Our services are very simple with very little ritual… save the benediction at the end. We hold loosely to our “traditions” because we don’t want to elevate one way of doing something and get stuck in rut.

I’m not necessarily saying that’s better. It’s just what I know. (And, clearly, what I like.)

As a result, I know very little about the “church calendar” and some of the tradition that it highlights. I’ve never had the ash smudge on my forehead. Or abstained from meat on Fridays. Or given up something for Lent.

In fact, for most of my life, my view of those ideas was fairly jaded. Perhaps it was my experience with so many people who had ashes on their forehead one Wednesday every year but virtually ignored Jesus the other 364 days.

Or perhaps it was my misunderstandings of the traditions. Honestly, giving up diet Coke for 40 days seemed silly to me in light of the extreme and weighty sacrifice that Jesus made on my behalf. We Americans indulge ourselves in excess nearly everyday. Most of us know very little of true sacrifice and service. Many of the people I knew who gave up something for Lent gorged on their now-forbidden treat right before and after their 40 days. How could that in any way help us appreciate the anguish and sacrifice of the God of heaven and earth dying on a cross to pay for the awful sins of every person who has ever lived?  Did we think we were impressing Jesus or somehow identifying with Him by depriving ourselves of chocolate for a month and a half?

Most of my experience with such rituals was little more than pomp and circumstance. But, in recent years, I have come to appreciate some of the heart behind some of those traditions.

One thing I have come to value is the way such times help us to remember. We are forgetful creatures. So forgetful. So quickly. God knows that about us. He’s the one who instituted communion as a way of remembering. We do need reminded. Regularly.

I think such traditions can also help us to slow down and reflect. Otherwise, it’s just too easy to get swept into our cultural definitions of a holiday. We get mired in the commercial messages that pound away at our soul. Suddenly it’s April and Easter is about finding the right dress and eating jelly beans and designing the perfect centerpiece for ANOTHER big meal.

And, honestly, that’s OK for Target or Macy’s or whomever. Really. I don’t expect them to make Easter about the sacrificial death and amazing resurrection of my Lord. That’s what we who follow Him need to do. We need to make it about Him… in our homes and in our own hearts.

If slowing down for 40 days of fasting and reflecting before we celebrate Resurrection Sunday will help you to do that, then by all means, please do.

As for this non-denominational girl, my observation of Lent will mostly be in intentional reflecting. I have some books that I will use to help me focus. I have some ideas rolling around in my head that might work for the whole family. If I feel prompted, I might fast in some way during this time. It’s all still a bit of a work in progress for me. (As usual, I’m a little behind schedule. You know, since it starts today and all!)

One thing I do know. I know I want to be a woman who regularly reflects and revels in the Cross and what it means for me. Dorothy Sayers writes that to make the Easter story into something that neither startles, shocks, terrifies, nor excites is “to crucify the Son of God afresh.”

I want to be startled.

How about you?

Sanctuaries

Rick and the kids have gone ahead. The house is still and I breath deep. Taking it in. The quiet. A dusting of snow falls peaceful outside. The only sounds are the hum of the furnace and the piano music I love so much.

Even I am still and quiet. Candles flicker soft light and I have the life-giving words of my Lord. It’s rare that I have such time alone on a Sunday morning. My Bible is open to the passage I know Pastor Joe will be in this morning… and I have a moment to prepare my own heart before I go join it with two hundred others.

The snow falls heavier now. Big fluffy flakes swirling out my window.

I love the safety and calm that is here. In this moment.

And yet, I discover within a growing longing. To leave this sanctuary for another. To go be with my fellow grace-dwellers. Brothers and sisters who join me in the joy of surrender to the One who loves with an everlasting love. To break free, for just a little while, from all the rest of it. From the messages that pound away daily at my heart. From the people who mock my faith. From the busyness of the weekly tasks and appointments.

And to rest safe with my church family. Learning together to do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with the only Voice who really matters.

The Upside-Down Way

I’m not sure where they came from this time. These tears forming in the corners of my eyes. It’s not that I don’t cry very often. I do. Hallmark commercials. Tender moments between friends. When I talk about my kids. Baptisms. Communions. Weddings. Movies. Music. Yeah, you could say I cry a lot.

But usually there’s something vulnerable and sweet that brings on the tears.

This wasn’t a particularly vulnerable moment. There was no soft, moving music. We weren’t in some great cathedral or a particularly beautiful building – just a converted carpet warehouse.

In fact, it was a rather jovial moment. My pastor/husband cracking jokes as he so often does. He was just introducing our three newest deacons on a typical Sunday morning. But, as he stood there with John & Keith, something in me just sort of caught. It was like I got a glimpse of God’s pleasure and it took my breath away.  As if we hit pause for a moment on all the trappings of our world system. A system that says wealth and power and ability are what make the man important.

Instead, I was thinking about these men and what God has called them to do. The very term deacon means servant. These are the guys who are the first arrive every Sunday morning and the last to leave. They collect trash and set out chairs and clean off the sidewalks. They’re the guys who come in on Saturday to fix the leak in the baptistery or show up on a Friday night to get the building ready for another event.

They simply serve – often in the quiet places that no one else ever even sees. Most of them would rather never even be recognized. There’s no extra perk for them. No pay. No power or prestige that goes with this office.  They do it because that’s the kind of God they serve. They follow the One who said “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”

In fact, our third new deacon, Tom, wasn’t there. Why? Because he was back in the Cube with our kids. I’m pretty sure he was in full-costume and making a “fool” of himself for their benefit. In fact, if you go back to the Cube on any given Sunday, you’ll find a lot of our men back there. Right on the floor with kids. Leading small groups. Putting the boys in a head lock (smile). Reading the Bible with them. Leading by example.

Hence my tears. In that moment, God was peeling back another layer of truth and reminding me of a better way. His upside-down way. As I sat there, it occurred to me that I don’t know what kinds of cars these men drive or the salary that they make or even the official position they hold at their jobs. But, I do know what kind of men they are and I know the kind of “Man” they follow.

And, that, takes an otherwise normal moment on a typical Sunday morning and makes it into something profoundly beautiful and touching.

Feeding the Hungry

The questions were sincere. I know they were.

“So, what will you be DOING there?”

“We’ll be giving them the Bible. For the first time in their own language. Ever.”

The Bible that had been 30-years-in-the-making. Thirty years of painstaking translation that one faithful couple had devoted their lives to. Learning the language of the mountain people. Creating a written language in a culture where none had ever existed. Making sure it captured the original Greek and Hebrew texts. The husband died before the work was ever completed. He spent his whole adult life living among this remote people, trying to give them God’s story in a way that they could understand it.

His wife finished the work alone.

The Bible that then had to be recorded and made portable for the many, many villagers who couldn’t read. The written translation was only the starting point. Hours upon hours of recording. And we could hold it in the palm of our hand!

We who, in the 11th hour, were going to give it to them.

“Yes, but, what else? What will you be DOING?”

The inquiry was well-intentioned. The asker had visions of orphanages and building projects and food pantries. (All incredibly important and needed ministries.)

But this trip was about 10 Ohioans toting pre-recorded MP3 players up into the mountain villages of Oaxaca, Mexico. Back through winding roads that barely seemed passable and up to the people who were three or four hours from any major city. Places so tucked away that even Spanish is not their primary language. Places where the chickens roam free and the woman across the field makes tortillas fresh each day and walks them to her neighbors.

And I remember feeling a little uncomfortable as I answered. “Just praying with them and giving them the Bible. That’s what the local people there have asked us to come do. They need help getting the Bibles to the people who want them.”

I squirmed as I said it. As if giving them the Book of God was somehow second-rate. As if hammer and nails were the only way to mend the broken down places in a village. As if corn and eggs and papaya were the only foods that would satisfy their deep hunger. Or clean water the only way to quench their thirst.

Oh, friends, let’s not be uncomfortable about offering Jesus to hungry people. I fear that we Christians are in the midst of an identity crisis lately. Divisions now exist within the family of God over the role of social justice and the need for us to do more to right the wrongs around us. But, the proverbial pendulum always swings too far. Because we’re embarrassed that we have neglected social ills at times, we’re now ashamed when the Gospel is the primary thing we have to offer.

 D.A. Carson says it beautifully in his book, For the Love of God:

“We must always remember that the Gospel is not admired in Scripture primarily because of the social transformation it effects, but because it reconciles men and women to a holy God. Its purpose is not that we might feel fulfilled, but that we might be reconciled to the living and holy God.”

In that reconciling, transformation will certainly occur. Wrongs will be righted as we lovingly reach out to people and invest in their lives. We will mourn with those who mourn. We will tend to the sick. We will adopt the orphan. We will minister to the outcast. We will feed the hungry.

Let’s just not be embarrassed about giving them the Bread that will always fill them. Sometimes that will be our only offering for their neediness. And,oh, what an offering…

(for more info on Oaxaca or our ministry partners there, check out http://lokerministry.blogspot.com)

The Power of Serving Together

Having just returned from a nine-day mission trip with some folks at our church, I’ve been thinking a lot about the dynamic that happens on a trip like this one. Of course, a lot of things happen in the community where you serve. That’s the point. That’s why you go.

But, a lot of by-products happen as well.

Things happen in your own heart. God changes you in ways you never expected. Suddenly the “giver” ends up being the “receiver” and you remember that Jesus is the real giver. We’re ALL receivers.

One of the great by-products is the kinship that develops between the team members. We laugh together. We take turns using the outhouse. We scream together when we find a scorpion in the sink. We cry together (especially when women come along). We sit in a smoke-filled room with stingy eyes together. We rub each other the wrong way and figure out how to be longsuffering. We marvel together at the hand of God.

We put shoulder to the plow and we serve together. Day in and day out. And it is good.

Missions trips are a greenhouse for those things. But, it can happen here at home too. For instance, our Community Group is beginning to experience it. My sister is finding it as she serves in the nursery. Something just happens when you throw down your chips and go all in. It’s not always easy but it’s a beautiful thing.

Just this morning I found this clip from Pastor Mark Driscoll in Seattle. He expresses it well. How about you? Are you all in? Are you invested in the family of God?

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